[BaronVonCroydlypants]

Its difficult to say as it varies on a case by case basis.

I think for me, there's both a comfort/hurt feel to it, where one feels comfortable being embraced by larger frames (comes from us really wanting to bang our mums vis a vis Freud), but for me there's also the deconstruction of making someone larger through subtle means.

Also there's the lovely self confidence in "Im fat, but you know what i feel fucking gorgeous anyway". That goes a long way. But, admiration is just that in the end. Admiration. We find the larger frames more 'larger than life', so they stand out more.