[Goddess]

I'm not sure if it went unnoticed or if I'm must being overly paranoid, but I did try to "get it back on track" by adding a pet-peeve of mine at the end of my last comment. Like I said before I didn't want to add to this being just a debate thread.

I hate it when people say things without saying them, or do things while saying they AREN'T doing them.

Or, like my husband saying he loves me while smashing my favorite objects on the floor in front of me.

I guess in short, I don't like deception.

It's something we all have to deal with, since even kind people deceive and manipulate each other, but it's those little things you can't really do anything about, yet really hurt you inside, that drive me crazy.

Another, gentler example, is my mother. "You know I don't care if your house is messy!" *comes over* "Oh, sweetie, why are all those dishes in your sink? Isn't your dishwasher empty??"

lol.

The joys of family, I guess....