[Goddess]

Or, like my husband saying he loves me while smashing my favorite objects on the floor in front of me.

I guess in short, I don't like deception.

Sounds like you need a grown up partner! Hope I'm not overstepping with my two cents, don't know if it was invited when you threw that out there... I'm just really sorry about that sh*t.

Oh, no he's long gone.
I kicked him out when he became physically abusive to me (not just my stuff, lol) to protect my son.

He has an order of protection against him for both me and my son.

He went north, then moved to Mexico and now he's across the country on the East coast. Long gone :)