I told a former therapist about my mpreg kink (which is a sexual kink, in my case). This was in the context of discussing navigating a sexual relationship where my partner is turned on by traditional aspects of penetrative sex, and I'm more turned on by my mpreg-related fantasies and use them as a vehicle to orgasm during sex, and to enjoy it. (My partner is aware of this, and though he doesn't understand, it doesn't seem to bother him much.)
My therapist acted totally comfortable with this information. He and I are both partnered gay men, so this may have made sharing such information easier. Nevertheless, during one session, he prompted me to admit that I had fantasized about watching him give birth. He even asked me what position he pushed in in my fantasies, as well as how he looked and acted in labor. It was quite a nice therapy session indeed!
To bring it back to the OP's post, my therapist believed that sexual kinks are pretty much immutable, rather like sexual orientation. We shouldn't seek to change the way our sexual brains work, but instead to channel our fantasies into healthy, mutually pleasing forms of sex for those we're sexual with.
My therapist acted totally comfortable with this information. He and I are both partnered gay men, so this may have made sharing such information easier. Nevertheless, during one session, he prompted me to admit that I had fantasized about watching him give birth. He even asked me what position he pushed in in my fantasies, as well as how he looked and acted in labor. It was quite a nice therapy session indeed!
To bring it back to the OP's post, my therapist believed that sexual kinks are pretty much immutable, rather like sexual orientation. We shouldn't seek to change the way our sexual brains work, but instead to channel our fantasies into healthy, mutually pleasing forms of sex for those we're sexual with.
