[darkfanboy]

I'll preface this with my usual devil's advocacy. Everything we do is a choice. Now, before anyone explodes, what I mean by this is simply we can embrace or deny who we are. Though I don't believe my self to be gay in the traditional sense, I do find some men attractive. However, even if I were to choose to become a true transgender I would still feel the need to be with a woman. And I think I'm still caught somewhere in between because I would severely miss me bits. I think its a tough choice to admit who you really are, and then embrace it wholly. Many people truly wind up sick to death of who they are and can't live with it. I had an mpreg friend when I first joined the Pregnantmen Yahoo!Group way back when that excused himself from our circle because he almost left his fiance to be with a man who wanted him to be something more. I dearly miss him and hope that all is well in his life, but know that he made a choice. Though I cannot say it was right or wrong it was his to make.