09-13-2012, 03:26 PM
It is indeed a very tough choice, had I not met my wife and endured the joys and tragedies we have... I can't say where I would be. I can't say for sure what is and isn't about sexuality. Nurture versus nature has always been a favorite topic of mine, especially regarding depression. My wife's mother is bi-polar manic, so in theory this could be passed on. My wife has always shown signs of severe depression but not bi-polar. I've never felt pr thought of myself as depressed, repressed certainly. After the loss of my son though I have no end of trouble with it. Even after two and a half years I still have trouble, but depression is not a family thing. Though not directly linked to homosexuality or gender dysphoria, I wonder if things went another way without my wife would the depression naturally set in. Especially if I denied myself the reality of who I am. Sadly I've lost track of time and tangent. I will try to pick this up later.
