I think it's usually not a choice. (Seriously, wait til I get to my fanaticism on genetics...) I don't think it's relevant, but it was kinda trendy when I was in high school to say "I'm bi" but thankfully not EVERYONE is bi anymore. I only say that because a lot of girls admitted they were going out of their comfort zone to seem more attractive to men who like lesbian activity they can get in on. BUT YA... ;P In reality a -lot- of people are not just experimentally bi, though, but genuinely struggle with sexual identity and sexual attraction, and drawing a line. My advice is... don't draw a line, just let it be, you were born who you are after all! :) Sex is not black or white, it's on a sliding scale... actually, it's more like a color wheel, with a person falling anywhere in between the ranges. I can't stand that people don't take genetics seriously.... or just think they are amazing! Like my aunt, who bought a puppy. She thought he would herd her mini horses with her collie and shepherd. He was a 50/50 Pyrenees/Retriever and spent all day taking over our kiddie pool, and never once chased a horse. She was... surprised? Why do you think dog breeds were BRED? Genetics!
Um... and not like I'm complaining but bisphenol-a could be responsible for triggering developmental anomalies in the brain during childhood. Gayness is increasing, but that could be more people feel comfortable exploring their boundaries in a more understanding and tolerant society... who knows!
I also just advocate, if someone is "meh" towards both genders, or more attracted to women, but wants to find it in themselves to fuck their guy friend because he isn't understood by women, POWER TO HIM. I had potential to like girls, (emotional crushes and more before puberty for some reason) but after puberty didn't have sexual crushes on girls until I let myself be kissed by one. Then I fell in love and it was like floodgates to a new part of my brain had been opened. (felt really cool!) But was it a choice? I'd say it was more of an awakening, but it was a choice to let it happen. So what? I think it's okay that everyone has a unique sexual journey.
Um... and not like I'm complaining but bisphenol-a could be responsible for triggering developmental anomalies in the brain during childhood. Gayness is increasing, but that could be more people feel comfortable exploring their boundaries in a more understanding and tolerant society... who knows!
I also just advocate, if someone is "meh" towards both genders, or more attracted to women, but wants to find it in themselves to fuck their guy friend because he isn't understood by women, POWER TO HIM. I had potential to like girls, (emotional crushes and more before puberty for some reason) but after puberty didn't have sexual crushes on girls until I let myself be kissed by one. Then I fell in love and it was like floodgates to a new part of my brain had been opened. (felt really cool!) But was it a choice? I'd say it was more of an awakening, but it was a choice to let it happen. So what? I think it's okay that everyone has a unique sexual journey.
